Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and a bestselling author, she is also the co-host of the ‘Dear Therapists’ podcast. Her New York Times bestselling books include, ‘Maybe You Should Talk to Someone’ and ‘Mr Good Enough’.

00:00 Intro
02:42 How to Live the Life You Want
05:40 Lack of Human Connections Leads to Relationship Pressure
06:55 Why the Majority Aren't Satisfied with Their Relationships
08:35 The Need to Be Understood
10:21 Why Men Struggle More Opening Up in the Relationship
17:08 Setting Unreal Expectations When Looking for a Partner
20:14 We're Too Picky on Dating Apps
25:33 High Expectations, Can They Be Lowered?
29:40 Gender Differences in Dating
34:18 The Type of People That Seek Bad Partners
35:45 How to Help Those People
37:23 Financial Differences in Dating
43:27 People Are Choosing Not to Have Kids and Get Married
49:36 What Happens When a Woman Earns More in the Relationship
51:42 The Big Debate on a First Date
57:09 Red Flags in First Dates
01:00:27 The Age You Marry Is Linked to Divorce Risk
01:04:08 You Need to Learn to Unknow Yourself
01:06:11 The Impact of Seeking Approval
01:12:56 When Your Friends Sabotage You When You Try to Change
01:21:20 Do Women Express More Emotion Than Men?
01:23:12 Do Our Dreams Have True Meanings?
01:25:44 The Safety of Self-Compassion
01:27:31 The Opposite of Depression Isn't Happiness
01:30:22 The Grief of Heartbreak and How to Recover
01:38:27 How to Help Someone Going Through Heartbreak
01:45:38 The Last Guest Question

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This episode of The Diary Of A CEO was filmed at Gold Tree Studios, located in the heart of the Sunset Strip, West Hollywood, California